Am I a butch lesbian or a femme lesbian? How can I tell?
I hear this question a lot. My best advise on this is don't think about it. Dress in what you like or you are comfortable in. if you think that red high heels are sexy and you like to wear them, then go ahead wear them. Show of you feminine features. However, If you like wearing skater shoes and blue jeans with just a simple t-shirt then go ahead. You don't have to look a certain way for anybody. Don't try to push something on yourself. Don't say "Okay I think I will go butch." and if you are going to do that don't go all out. Don't buy a bunch of male clothes, because when you do that. You will see something girly and you want to wear that. So you regret spending all that money on clothes you are never going to wear again. So just let your true fashion feelings come out.
